lensbaby angst

When I bought the two lens Lensbaby kit I assumed that I would use the 35mm & 80mm equally.  Not so.  I found that the 80 yielded a very smooth out of focus area and that the 35 gave me a zoom effect - not a look I like.  I also believed that the 35 just wasn't very sharp.  But after a nice email discussion with a member of the "Lensbaby Customer Happiness Team" (I know) and some more testing I have made peace with the 35.  Not that it will find a permanent place in my Domke, but it won't be exiled to the back of the camera closet either.